Each year on November 20, communities worldwide observe Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) to honor transgender individuals who have lost their lives to acts of violence. Created in 1999 by trans advocate Gwendolyn Ann Smith to commemorate the life of Rita Hester—a Black transgender woman murdered in 1998—Transgender Day of Remembrance began as a candlelight vigil and has since grown into an international event. It is a day to reflect on the impact of anti-trans violence, support the transgender community, and reinforce the importance of mental health support.
The Significance of Transgender Day of Remembrance in San Francisco
Trans rights activist Janetta Johnson speaks on a panel on transgender rights activism, San Francisco, August 2018. Image from: Pax Ahimsa Gethen, Wikipedia
InSan Francisco, TDOR holds special resonance. As a city known for its legacy of LGBTQ+ activism, San Francisco has long provided a supportive environment for transgender individuals. Over the years, many local LGBTQ+ organizations, community centers, and advocacy groups have united to hold vigils, marches, and events to mark this day. These gatherings are spaces for healing and connection, where the trans community and allies come together in solidarity. Notably, institutions like the San Francisco LGBT Center and Transgender Law Center continue to advocate for policies that protect transgender individuals and educate the public about the systemic issues that impact the lives of trans people.
San Francisco’s history of advocacy serves as a reminder of the progress that has been made—and the work that remains. By honoring the lives lost, these gatherings emphasize that behind every name is a story, a community, and a shared resilience that refuses to be erased. For therapists, marking this day in a strengths-based approach means focusing on the inherent strength, resilience, and beauty of the transgender community.
Why Therapists Mark Transgender Day of Remembrance
Therapists observing Transgender Day of Remembrance recognize the importance of compassionate, affirming support in the face of such challenging realities. This day serves as a reminder that the mental health needs of trans clients are unique and that affirming therapy can be a critical resource. Many trans individuals face mental health challenges tied to discrimination, social stigma, and exposure to violence, making mental health support not just beneficial but essential.
By marking TDOR, therapists acknowledge the resilience that trans individuals show every day. Therapy offers a space where trans clients can explore their identities, find community, and develop coping strategies to navigate a world that may not always be inclusive. TDOR serves as an opportunity to highlight the role of therapists as allies who empower their clients to recognize their strength and value in the face of adversity.
The Ongoing Commitment to Affirming Therapy
While TDOR is a day of remembrance, the work to support trans individuals and advocate for their well-being continues year-round. Therapy practices that offer affirming care provide consistent, safe spaces for trans clients to heal, grow, and thrive. Affirming therapy celebrates each client’s unique identity and experiences, helping them build resilience and self-acceptance.
As we honor Transgender Day of Remembrance, we commit to remembering, affirming, and supporting the trans community every day of the year. For therapists, this means continuing to stand as allies, offering unwavering support, and advocating for mental health practices that respect and celebrate the lives of transgender individuals.
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