Paul Ziller

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #112852

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A Little About Me

As Glennon Doyle Melton says, “You are not a mess. You are a feeling person in a messy world.”

Most of our wounding is experienced in relationship, and so our healing benefits from that too. I’m a fully licensed LMFT, with over 5 years of direct client experience. I offer a compassionate, collaborative home base that responds to what you bring. Face your challenges with skilled support. I bring a fearlessness to being with your hardest stuff.

We'll move at a pace that's attuned to you, balancing qualities of relief, while leaning into your growing edges. Together we can work to help you be in better relationship and balance with yourself and others, build resources, connect to your rich inner life and greater clarity, and create a more intentional path.

Reach out...I offer a FREE 20-minute phone consultation, which concludes with a brief intake, if it's a good fit.

My approach is relational and holistic, bringing into awareness aspects of BODY, MIND & SPIRIT. We'll inquire into and respond to your thoughts, feelings, sensations, narratives, relationships. What your unique life or trauma have split off, disavowed in you, or disconnected you from, this work can help reintegrate, reconnect, heal.

I came to this therapeutic work through my own mid-life awakening, discovered through uncovering my essential self in my own psychotherapy, so I bring a strong passion to this work. I welcome diversity of all kinds, couples/triads, LGBTQQIA. It would be a privilege to walk this path with you.


672 2nd Ave.
San Francisco, California 94118
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I Work With:
  • Highly Sensitive People
  • LGBTQI+ and Gender Expansive or Non-Binary
  • Marginalized Individuals
  • Poly and Open Relationships
Types of Therapy I Do
  • Couples Therapy
  • Individual Therapy
My Areas of Focus
  • Anxiety
  • Communication and Boundaries
  • Depression
  • Gender and Sexuality
  • Nervous System Regulation
  • Relationship Issues
My Treatment Approaches
  • Attachment
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

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